Common Triggers
- →Thinking about cherished memories
- →Spending time with loved ones
- →Petting a beloved pet
- →Enjoying a favorite activity
- →Receiving a thoughtful gift
- →Hearing a familiar and comforting song
Physical Sensations
- •Warmth in the chest
- •Soft smile
- •Relaxed shoulders
- •Gentle heartbeat
- •Feeling of comfort
- •Lightness in the body
Plutchik's Emotion Wheel
love
Working with This Emotion
Recognize
Fondness can be recognized by a warm, gentle feeling in the chest, a soft smile, and a sense of comfort. You might also notice yourself leaning in or wanting to spend more time with the person or thing you feel fond of.
Understand
Common causes of fondness include shared positive experiences, long-term relationships, and moments of connection. It often arises from memories that evoke joy and trust.
Label
To label fondness accurately, distinguish it from similar emotions like love, which is deeper and more intense, or liking, which is more casual. Fondness has a gentle, comforting quality that sets it apart.
Express
Healthy ways to express fondness include sharing warm memories, giving small tokens of appreciation, and spending quality time with the person or thing you feel fond of. You can also write heartfelt notes or messages to convey your feelings.
Regulate
If you need to regulate fondness, try grounding techniques like deep breathing or focusing on the present moment. Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you connect with others in a positive way.
Using Inner
In Inner, you can track patterns of fondness by journaling about the moments when you feel this emotion. Notice the physical sensations in your body, such as warmth in your chest or a gentle smile on your face. Use regulation strategies like gratitude exercises to deepen these feelings and bring more joy into your life.
Try Inner for FreeSources & References
- —RULER Framework (Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence)
- —Plutchik's Wheel of Emotions
- —Geneva Emotion Wheel
- —Lisa Feldman Barrett - How Emotions Are Made
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The Self
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